Also it’s more effective
Is it possible to not tell me and not be a dick about it?
When I say I want to read the book before seeing the movie, I don’t want brownie points or bragging rights. I want to be able to read the book with my imagined world and idea of the characters without the movie’s influence at least once. After you see the movie there’s always some part of it that sticks in your head for a long time and you lose the enjoyment of making it up yourself.
thank you so much for putting it into words
I didn’t go deep enough with intersectionality, but wanted to keep it simple for people who still don’t get it.